You cannot choose who you fall in love with.
Love does not prefer to manifest itself only if you select those with the best of natures, for some of you will fall in love with the worst of characters.
When his happens you can decide on two different paths. To remain in Love with fear or to give “Love” a chance. You are creatures created in “Love” therefore your “Love” is not restricted to only one other being but to many. To find the right partner is as simple as allowing your “Love” the freedom to move forward in search of a love that tells you that the others “Love” completes you, for who you are.
Some are fortunate to find the “right” one early in their search while for others the task becomes a painful experience of learning that may take many years.
If you had the wisdom and ability to accept an abusive partner for what they are, you would never feel threatened, yet you would be giving them permission to continue the abuse. When you feel threatened you instantaneously experience fear. This fear takes away your clear judgement, all clarity is gone and daily decisions are fear based.
You have a responsibility to yourselves to honestly look at your life situation and see that all the pieces of the puzzle do not fit the way you want them to.
An unquestioned mind is an unsafe mind, it leads you to accept all that life has dumped on you without any thought of change.
When a volatile relationship tests you time and time again the mind goes into auto-pilot, it accepts the course someone else has set for you and you lose control over your own power of being.
In whatever circumstances you may find yourself you must remember that life is a journey. A path that often over and over again leads you to a place you may not wish to be. Repeatedly you may ask yourselves, ‘What are you doing?’ Why is your life not going the way you planned or why is the person you love most not loving us the way you dreamed?
Often you cannot see a way out of your situation. You feel you have lost all control of even the smallest of dreams. In this state of hopelessness you believe you have lost all you thought you had. It is at this point in your lives that you will blame God, no longer wishing to believe in love or that the one you long for the most does not exist.
We may ask ourselves, “Why would God or Life do this to you?”
At this point you will discover who you are not. You now know you are not the willing victim. You must allow yourself to take a stand and change the way you once thought. Bring back the joy in your life by understanding that all is not lost. That Life is not to blame for your bad luck but that you will recover from your pain if you believe that you have the power to recreate and begin again.
Like a pond that never moves, you can become stagnant, yet a mere trickle is all that is needed to keep the water fresh and alive.
One baby step at a time is like the trickle into the pond, it keeps us moving towards new life. Know the fulfilment that each baby step can bring you towards a better life.
Just as life is forever renewing itself, renew yourself and you will discover a better way. Many doors will open to you for love will not fail you.
Life is a challenging journey, listen to your heart. ‘Let your heart rule your head is a lesson you can all learn’.
Be more knowingly aware that the heart is far more powerful than the mind, that in fact the decisions you make subconsciously always come from the heart.
Every day, you have the preference to love yourself. You do not have to stop loving yourself to give love to others.
If you have lived with the belief that you must self-sacrifice in order to be a good person then you are sacrificing your own wellbeing in doing so.
Identify the things that make your life a misery. Be completely honest with yourself; this is the first step to freedom.
This, you may say appears to be good in theory, yet the undertaking is not so easy as it sounds, there are a million reasons why you cannot take that first baby step or if you did it would only serve to fail you.
I am not saying that to bring about any change is an easy task or that in the time it has taken you to read this lessons you have become a new and enlightened being, that is not possible. It may take many lifetimes to reach any kind of enlightenment, but the one thing I hope these lesson have taught you is that by choice you do not have to live your lives as Babies in the Gutter. Whether you are suffering from the smallest abuse to the kind that will destroy your life there is a way out, and only you and you alone can begin to bring about that change with the first baby step towards a better life.
You cannot correct the past but you can correct the future by re-creating a better way from all things experienced in the past.
09/06/2024.
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